I’ve been diagnosed with Alzheimer’s and I’m not even 60 – I’m terrified

DEAR DEIDRE: I’VE been diagnosed with Alzheimer’s and I’m not even 60. Now I wake up every day worrying about what the future holds. 

As hard as I try, I can’t get it off my mind. I’m a 57-year-old man and I found out that I had early-onset Alzheimer’s two months ago.

The diagnosis came as a complete surprise after I visited the doctor for depression and anxiety.

When he broke the news I felt like my life had come crashing down in front of me and there was no escape.

Ever since I’ve been trying my best to come to terms with it but, no matter what, it constantly overwhelms my mind.

I’m worried about what will happen to me but, most of all, I worry for my wife.

It breaks my heart every time I think about forgetting her and I already feel terrible for the future she will have to deal with.

The worst part is that I’ve heard nothing from the hospital since my diagnosis. 

After they put me on a waiting list to see a specialist it’s been complete radio silence and trying to get any kind of support has felt like pulling teeth.

I just want to know what’s happening to me and what to expect. 

The unknown is sending me into a pit of despair.

DEIDRE SAYS: Feeling worried and frightened is normal and understandable, but try to remember that a diagnosis doesn’t signal the end of your life.

You aren’t powerless against the disease and often some symptoms can be relieved with medication.

It’s going to take a while to process but there is help out there.

Find great support through the Alzheimer’s Society (alzheimers.org.uk, 0333 150 3456). It works to improve the  life of people affected by any form of dementia and offer information, guidance, and support.