DEAR DEIDRE: A BANK statement led to me finding my husband’s secret phone with sex texts and naked pics of young women – but I’m too scared to talk to him about it.
This statement showed money was going out to a different phone network from the one I knew about.
Husband’s secret sex chats revealed on bank statement — but I’m too old to leaveGetty - Contributor
I then hunted around when he was at the dentist and found this other phone stashed in his toolbox.
I feel ashamed and hurt.
We are not young. My husband is 58 and I am 54.
We have a grown-up son and daughter together but I don’t want to confide in either of them about this.
My husband has no interest in me sexually but he treats me well most of the time. Part of me thinks I should divorce him but I don’t want to start a new life at this stage or move home.
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DEIDRE SAYS: Think what resolution you wish for before raising the subject.
He is clearly still interested in sex. Would you like to revive your sex life?
If so, tell him you want to rebuild the intimacy you used to share. That in itself would probably make the secret phone redundant.
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