Dear Abby: I can’t stop thinking about boyfriend’s threesome
Dear Can’t: I respect your boyfriend’s honesty and openness.
Because you can’t get this out of your head, talk further with him about his youthful escapade.
If your concern is that your boyfriend is interested in having sex with other men, ask him that question.
When I started a job as a cook in an assisted-living facility a year ago, I was required to go through an orientation, and the dress code was explained.
When I asked about visible tattoos, the lady who ran the orientation was unsure if they were allowed to show and told me to ask my manager.
[...] I have worn long-sleeved polo shirts with the sleeves rolled up.
No one has commented about the sleeves.
Since I went through that orientation, two girls have been hired who have ink on their arms.
While displaying your tats may not be a problem considering that two other employees are showing theirs, your new executive director should be able to give you a definite answer to your question.
[...] while you’re at it, suggest that because there are now three employees with tattoos, the policy should be clearly stated in the employee handbook, which may be due for an update.