I love my girlfriend but I worry I will regret it if I don’t explore my sexuality
DEAR DEIDRE: I LOVE my girlfriend but worry that I will massively regret it if do not further explore my sexuality.
I am 26. We have been together for four years and have a mortgage and a lovely home.
But the past year has been tough for me, as I am falling out of love with her. I feel trapped.
We had a talk a while back and agreed to make a bigger effort with our relationship, go out more and get fitter.
As I got in better shape, my sexuality started to emerge.
As a teen, I was attracted to guys but never did anything about it. I can’t tell my family.
They’d say split up with my girlfriend. But that’s not what I want. I just want to explore.
I asked her recently if she’d consider a threesome but she went mad.
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DEIDRE SAYS: She probably felt uneasy telling you how much her life appears on the up since meeting her new man.
After tapping into this deeper conflict within your sexuality, you can’t just put a lid on it.
And it’s unfair to use your girlfriend as an emotional backstop.
Contact Switchboard LGBT + Helpline for help to decide which path is right for you, but you might well have to accept you can’t have it all (switchboard.lgbt, 0300 330 0630).
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