He has been having an affair with a young woman of 27, which he insists is over now. He is 53 and I am 51. Our son of 18 wants us to stay together whatever. But our 22-year-old son thinks his dad should rot in hell.
The woman is a colleague and if she leaves her husband, her partner will be homeless because she is the one who owns their property.
He doesn’t know about their affair but is aware their relationship is unstable. My husband continues to live with us but we are in separate bedrooms. I can’t even look at him right now.
He said he can’t live with her and that he doesn’t love her. But I’m not sure about that. Do I take him back?
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