I’m cheating on my husband and it’s all his fault – I can’t be the only woman in this situation
A CHEATING wife has blamed her husband for her infidelity after she was made a ‘golf widow.’
Fiona, 49, from Edinburgh, started an affair five months ago and claims it’s all her spouse’s fault due to the amount of time he spends on his favourite sport.
Since he spends up to 20 hours every week on the course, she’s used this time to enjoy steamy romps with her lover and insists she doesn’t even feel sorry about it.
She says: “It’s all he does. Right now it feels like he plays more golf than he does work. And I’m sick of it.
“I’m not some strict wife who expects him home for dinner at 5.30pm every day, I’ve never stopped him from going to the pub or what not, but surely there’s got to be a line.
“Now we’ve finally reached spring and the weather’s starting to pick up. It’s even worse. The first sight of sun and he’s at the golf course.
“There’s never any question of spending some time with me, going on a nice walk or something. No, it’s all about golf.
“It’s like I don’t exist apart from to cook and clean up after him, he’s even had the cheek to ask me to help clean his golf clubs.
“When the Masters are on it’s like hell on earth, golf during the day, then he comes home and watches more golf. He’s not even any good at it.
“Not to even mention the expense. It feels like there’s something golf-related arriving at the house every week but he’ll never spend any money on me or take me out. How much golf stuff do you even need?”
Fiona, who met her lover on Illicitencounters.com, adds: “Right now my husband’s out on the golf course for about 20 hours a week so I’ve been putting the same amount of time into my lover.
“I have so much love to give, but my husband is like talking to a brick wall sometimes. I’ve loved having a normal conversation about things, talking about each-others hobbies, then acting on them.
“We even went for a game of mini golf for one of our dates. He is everything my husband is not. Attentive, caring, funny.
“And our intimacy has just topped everything off. I didn’t realise how much I was missing the sex side of things. You kind of accept not having as much as you get older but having sex with my lover really feels like making love, it’s just been wonderful.
“I’ve tried talking to my husband about it but he’ll roll his eyes then just walk off. He can’t see it from my point of view at all.
“He thinks he’s just spending time with his friends, having a good time and there’s nothing wrong with that.
“But he can’t see how much it’s hurting me, and I don’t know if he even cares.
” After two decades of marriage surely we should be better at communicating than this, but it feels like we’re living in two completely different worlds.”