My girlfriend complains my penis is small so I’m sleeping with my best friend
DEAR DEIDRE: WHEN we have sex, my girlfriend complains that she can barely feel me inside her – and to be honest, neither can I.
She says I’m not very big but I’ve never worried about my size before her – I’m five inches long with a decent girth.
I am 26 and my girlfriend is 24. Recently I had sex with my female best friend, and she did nothing but moan and scream with pleasure throughout. She is 25.
It felt good with her and we talked afterwards about how much we enjoyed going to bed with each other.
Afterwards, I asked her what she thought about my penis size. She told me that she had absolutely no complaints and felt I was perfect.
My girlfriend says she loves me even though I’m not very big down below.
I’ve started to have sex with my bestie more and more and can’t help but compare sex with her to my partner.
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DEIDRE SAYS: Penis size has very little to do with whether a woman reaches orgasm. Most do not manage to climax from only penetrative sex but from oral or manual stimulation of the clitoris.
It is also important that a woman is really turned on – and that is more in the brain than the body.
To fully enjoy sex, it’s key to make sure your partner is feeling relaxed and in the mood before you start – by touching and kissing them.
Good communication is also a factor in having good sex.
And more importantly, stop cheating on your girlfriend.
If you can’t make a relationship with her work, it is best to end it.