Columnist and trained counsellor Fiona Caine answers another set of dilemmas

My teenage son is hard work. My husband and I try to get involved in his life but he keeps pushing us away. He’s also rude and uncooperative. If I ask where he’s going, he simply says ‘nowhere’ or ignores me. If I push a bit harder, he either says it’s none of my business or gets angry and stomps out of the house, slamming doors behind him.