You are endlessly grateful to your non-horsey parents for their continued support with your love affair with horses. But it
Unhorsey parents? 6 secrets to success if you’re going it alone
If you’re not in the fortunate position of having horse mad parents to give your riding career a kick start, what can you do to set yourself on the path to success? Here’s some top tips
If you never raced off to the riding school as a child, eyes bright at the prospect of a day’s hard labour in return for a free ride, you probably didn’t grow up in a non-horsey family.
And if you never saw a look of incomprehension and panic on your parents’ faces as you quickly became addicted to this new, expensive and worryingly dangerous hobby, then you definitely didn’t.
But being born of non-horsey parents has not stopped some of our well-known riders from reaching the top, including dressage rider Anna Ross (pictured).
Going it alone: how to survive with non horsey parents
1. Take the driving seat
Parents want proof that a new hobby is no flash in the pan before they commit themselves. Lead from the front, bringing family members on board with your enthusiasm.
2. Develop your niche
Make yourself useful and opportunities may come your way. If you can coax results from the naughty ponies and the no-hopers, you may be in with a shout when a more promising ride needs a new jockey.
3. Explore opportunities
Pony teams might be out of reach, but bursaries and training schemes such as the Pony Club’s rider development pathway can leg you up towards your goal. Visit www.pcuk.org
4. Train your team
From paperwork and picnic-making to lorry mechanics — even if parents are not hands-on with the horses, they can still be involved.
5. Maintain focus
Don’t dwell on what others have. “Focus on yourself and you’ll stand half a chance,” says Anna Ross.
6. Dream on…
It could happen — as Mary King, Paul Tapner and Carl Hester, among others, have proved.
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