Boyfriend is still texting and flirting with woman he met while we were on a break

DEAR DEIDRE: RECENTLY I got back together with my boyfriend, so I don’t understand why he is still texting a woman he met when we split.

I ended our relationship because I was fed up with being ignored by him.

The final straw came on a night out together when he behaved like I was simply an acquaintance in the crowd.

We were with a couple of other friends and he gave this group of women more attention than me.

That night, when we got back to our hotel, I ended it.

I am 26 and my boyfriend is 27. Two months later we are together again after he apologised.

But I’ve been looking at his messages and it’s clear he’s still flirting with one of the women he met on the very night we originally split up.

He insists a friend set him up, but I’m furious.

Apparently he has told her we are back together, so why is he still in contact with her?

DEIDRE SAYS:  You have to talk to him and ask why he’s in touch with her.

If he doesn’t expect you to be hurt and upset about him sending her messages, he doesn’t understand love and commitment, let alone honesty.

How would he feel if you were messaging another man like this?

Think long and hard about whether he is the one for you.

My support pack on Cheating may help, even if he hasn’t physically been unfaithful.