Expert Devyn Simone suggested 43-year-old Courtney should leave some playful details out and avoid exclamation points.
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Courtney, a 43-year-old using Hinge, OkCupid, and Coffee Meets Bagel to date, submitted his Hinge profile for Insider's Dating App Clinic, a series where we ask experts how to revamp your dating profiles to increase your chances of finding a match.
Courtney said he's looking to date women. He's seeking someone who is kind, open, and supportive.
He said his deal breakers are someone who is flaky or rude to service people. Additionally, Courtney wants to avoid dating someone with low self-esteem.
"I want to convey that I'm fun, proactive in planning, and kind," Courtney told Insider. He said his ultimate goal is to find a life partner.
Courtney said he thinks he paints an accurate picture of what it's really like to date him, but would like help showing potential matches that he's more than friend material.
Devyn Simone, a matchmaker and Tinder's resident relationship expert, told Insider how Dave could update his Hinge profile to increase his chances of finding a match.
Simone said Courtney brought a positive and playful energy to his profile, which she enjoyed.
Courtney submitted his Hinge profile to Insider's Dating App Clinic.
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"Courtney seems like a fun person to be around and someone who is intellectually curious, which is a characteristic on many women's 'must-haves' list," Simone told Insider.
Simone suggested Courtney update this opening photo with one where his gaze is slightly averted.
A small tweak to Courtney's eye contact in this photo could make a huge difference, Simone said.
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In this photograph, Courtney's appearance is clear, and the background of his photo is alluring, two dating expert-approved photography tips for attracting more matches, Insider previously reported.
Still, Simone suggested Courtney use this opening photo elsewhere in his profile, or swap it out. In its place, he should have a photo where he's looking slightly away from the camera or past it, Simone said.
She said that having at least one photo where you're not looking into the lens can provide a bit of mystery and suggests an attitude of confidence to potential matches.
Courtney should also try to balance the playfulness he exudes with a bit of mystery, Simone said.
Courtney should show off his energetic side, but also leave room for more curiosity from matches, a matchmaker said.
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According to Simone, a good profile is equal parts insightful, humorous, and mysterious.
To achieve this, she suggested thinking of your profile like a description on a cocktail menu at an upscale restaurant.
"In the description, they don't give away the whole recipe, exactly how many ice cubes they use, or how many times they shake the drink. They give just enough detail to leave you wanting to know more. The same should be true for your profile," Simone said.
Here, she suggested Courtney edit his written response to say something like, "I'm great at planning cool activities, discovering new things to try, and finding the joy in whatever the day brings."
Here, Courtney should consider writing a more succinct response to leave potential matches wanting more, Simone said.
It's important to show that you're excited to meet new people, but you also don't want to come off as too eager, Simone said.
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According to Simone, Courtney should pick just three ideas to list here.
Right now, it comes off a bit like a long ingredient list, which leaves little to the imagination, said Simone.
"Let the right person discover the rest of your great qualities when you two meet and get to know one another," Simone said.
Courtney should also consider removing photo captions to add more mystery to his profile, said Simone.
Photos can be great conversation-starters if you leave some details to the imagination, a matchmaker said.
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"Leave her room to ask questions and facilitate conversation," Simone said.
Here, Simone loved the detail, but suggested Courtney remove the exclamation point and pun.
Certain details and personality traits are more impactful to a match if they experience them in person for the first time, Simone said.
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"The reality is that Courtney brings a lot to the table and he should be confident in that. He doesn't need to indulge in sharing every single thing about himself," Simone said.
In this prompt, Simone suggested Courtney remove the exclamation point and pun. While they convey his energetic and playful nature, a potential match could misinterpret these details as too eager, and thus lacking confidence, Simone said.
Overall, Courtney has a clear sense of what he brings to the table, Simone said.
With a few tweaks, Courtney should be able to score more matches, Simone said.
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When it comes to going on dates, Simone said she thinks that Courtney's personality and ability to woo a match will shine through.
Courtney made the common mistake of giving too much detail upfront, which "comes across as if you're trying too hard to promote yourself," Simone said.
Finally, she said the Courtney might consider adding more visual interest to his profile, by adding a picture with a friend or two or a moody black-and-white shot.
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