I let my husband sleep with other women – but there are four rules he’s got to follow, says Celebs Go Dating star
CELEBS Go Dating star Dr Tara Suwinyattichaiporn has revealed she lets her husband sleep with other women.
However, the US sex and relationship expert says there are “rules” he has to follow.
Dr Tata shout to fame in the UK when she joined the latest series of E4’s Celebs Go Dating.
She is a mentor alongside show regulars Anna Williamson and Paul Brunson,
Tara married her husband Brent in January after three years together.
She says she has always been open with him about her sexual preferences.
Tara engages in sexual acts with others “a few times a year” – but Brent hasn’t always been keen.
“He wasn’t open to it at first, which is why I say people can change their minds,” she told OK! “Some people need to really trust their partner before going into it. The more you talk about it, the more you trust each other.”
While a “monogamish” dynamic works for the sexpert and her husband, it comes with a list of rules they must follow.
“You have to know yourself really well, know what would trigger you and your partner, and what you can and can’t do,” she says. “Red flags would be, for example, no kissing strangers, because that can be seen as more romantic. No sleeping with close friends is another – I think that would be pretty awkward if you had to see them later. And always using protection.”
Dr Tara previously talked to The Sun about the “monogamish” movement.
This is where people encourage their partners to have sexual experiences with other people — and it is fast becoming a trend among the younger generation.
She said: “This can be the answer to the divorce epidemic.
“People think monogamy is sacred. But is it really, when so many people break that promise?
“Instead of making it a morally superior thing, why don’t we become more logical and talk about what is missing after people have been married for ten years?
“Asking your partner how their day was is boring.
“Showing them a photo of someone else and asking, ‘Would you f*** them?’ is a lot more exciting.”
Dr Tara sais a huge number of couples have come to her for advice on being monogamish.
And keen to help Sun readers, Tara advises that no one should be afraid of learning more about the subject before approaching their partner.
She said: “I call this phase going from a relationship to a relation-s**t.
“If you and your partner have become more like friends, there is no passion. Why not try something different?
“I think this is something a lot of people want but they don’t know how to communicate it.
“This is not cheating. This is the opposite of cheating.
“Cheating is characterised by secrecy but this is upfront and open.
“You communicate about what is OK and what is not OK. Trust and respect is needed.”