I suggested going for a spa weekend – then my friends booked it without me

DEAR DEIDRE: MY friends are going on a weekend away that I suggested – without me.

Last year me and my husband were planning to go on a spa weekend with two other couples.

We are all in our late-40s and were looking forward to a quick weekend away without our kids.

Recently my friend mentioned in passing she’d booked the spa weekend, but she could only get an apartment for four, so we’d need to book a separate room.

I later checked the site and saw there was still plenty of accommodation for six.

What have I missed? I feel so let down.

I’ve told her we won’t be going, to which she suggested another visit next spring.

Our friendship has been ruined. Should I be upset?

DEIDRE SAYS: The spa may have released more accommodation.

But talk to her calmly and ask if there is an issue you are unaware of.

Her response will either confirm that this was a misunderstanding, or that it is time to put more effort into other friendships.

My support pack Rows With Friends will help you.