My escort girl and her friends want a piece of me
DEAR DEIDRE: My escort girl and her colleagues all want a piece of me since she told them about my skills in bed.
I’m a single man of 41 with a high sex drive. I’ve tried online dating but not found anyone special so have resorted to using an escort company.
The women will accompany you on a night out if that’s what you require and if you want more you can pay extra for sex.
For the past two years I have often treated myself to the full package.
Recently my regular escort was sick so I was assigned to another lady.
She’s 23 and we clicked together perfectly.
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It was the most amazing sexual experience of my life — and potentially hers too.
I went to see her a week later. This time she was ready for me.
She told me she’d been dreaming about how amazing it would be to have me make love to her every day.
I gave her my number but she hasn’t got in contact. The next time I went, she asked if we could involve her friend, as the other girls were “getting jealous”.
Her friend was very business-like, but still she seemed to like it when I pleasured her.
The woman I liked was also weirdly professional, but once her friend left she let her guard drop again and I could feel our connection strongly.
As I left, she asked if another friend could join us next time.
She promised to call but I’ve heard nothing.
I know she feels something for me, as I do for her, but I also know it’s a business, or in her case a way to pay for study.
But I can’t get her off my mind. I’ve never had such feelings for somebody before.
MORE FROM DEAR DEIDRE
DEIDRE SAYS: I don’t doubt that your feelings are real, but she sees you simply as a lucrative business transaction, and if she keeps you sweet you’ll bring her repeat money.
You don’t know her, other than that you are sexually compatible.
You are at such different life stages – she will clear some tuition fees or debts before moving on and settling into her chosen career.
The most meaningful sex is within a long-term relationship.
My support pack Finding The Love Of Your Life may help you break the cycle of visiting escorts and find somebody who wants what you do.