Only sex workers will entertain my fetish

DEAR DEIDRE: I’ve never met a woman who was into my fetish of wearing latex so I have to pay sex workers to help me get my relief.

I’m 32 and watching performers like Rihanna and Beyonce strut their stuff in latex kickstarted my interest.

Whenever I get invited to a fancy dress party, I always opt for a superhero look – which means I get to indulge the amazing feeling of the latex suit against my skin.

I’ve also bought a couple of catsuits from a sex shop to wear at home.

I’ve been out with a few women but every time I suggest putting on the latex, to have sex, they think I’m weird.

I feel so ashamed that I can’t find a normal relationship with a lovely woman. I do feel the urge to bring my fetish into it.

I’m ashamed that this is the thing that turns me on. Is there any way I can turn myself off this?

DEIDRE SAYS: Possibly, but you’ll need to have a better understanding of where this need comes from.

Many fetishes are derived from some form of comfort you experienced in childhood.

Dummies, balloons and gloves contain latex so it may relate to an earlier period in your life.

There is no need to feel ashamed. Plenty of people have fetishes.

A good sexual relationship is all about compromises.

My support packs, Sex Toys And Sense and Kinks And Fetishes, will help and show you where to find emotional support.