I’m 62, test sex toys & must orgasm everyday with or without my toyboy..my friends hate it but my sons are so proud
WHILE some women see their libido flop when they hit their 60s, it’s the exact opposite for Suzanne Noble.
At 62, she loves sex, orgasms every single day AND enjoys regular love making sessions with her toyboy partner.
The mum-of-two wakes up every morning primed and ready for a bit of action between the sheets. And if her partner isn’t with her, then she’ll reach for her trusty vibrator.
Suzanne, who’s 62 and lives on her own in London, says: “I’m a morning person and what better way to start the day than with an orgasm. It sets me up to feel relaxed and happy for the rest of the day.
And if for any reason I have to skip it, then I feel distracted, as if I have an itch that I can’t scratch! It’s a horrible feeling.”
Suzanne, who has a sex positive TikTok channel with nearly 230k likes, believes it’s time to break down any lasting stigma against women masturbating and using sex toys and even tests and reviews them for various companies.
She says, “I’ve used sex toys for years – my first ones about 30 years ago were very basic, noisy and buzzing with rattly batteries.
“Through to the rabbit and now the toys of today which are very sophisticated, largely quiet and even ones you can use with a long-distance partner controlling them with an app.
“The more we understand our bodies, the more we can understand what gives us pleasure and then we can help someone else to give us an orgasm.
At that time I felt my body was a baby making machine so my libido switched off. But it came back with a vengeance post-divorce and my 40s were completely wild.
Suzanne Noble
“I believe it’s beneficial to most people to experiment with them. I get so excited when I get a new one to test out to see what it can do for me. “
Suzanne, a mum of two grown up sons, was first approached by a sex toy company about a year ago to test them.
Since then, she’s shared her reviews via her podcast called Sex Advice for Seniors and on her TikTok account where she has over 56k followers.
“I’m not remotely embarrassed talking about it and admitting to regularly using toys. No one should be, it’s completely natural,” she insists.
“At the moment I’ve got 15 different toys that I use depending on my mood – I’ve had many more than that in my time, but I throw them away when I get a better one, otherwise my bedroom would be taken over by them.”
Suzanne has always enjoyed sex, since she lost her virginity aged 17.
She explains: “My first time was a one-night stand which I loved and I think set me up not to associate sex with love, but as something that gives pleasure and a sense of well-being.
“And when I had my first orgasm through penetrative sex in my 20s I found it even more incredible.
“Good sex makes you feel great and I believe in the mantra ‘use it or lose it’. The more you have, the better you feel and the more you want it.
“You release feel good chemicals when you have an orgasm, it helps relieve pain, it improves your heart health, relieves stress and boosts your immune system. I might be 62 but I look and feel much younger.”
Suzanne admits that ever since she lost her virginity she’s always had a man on the go. But she has had a few dry patches. One was when she had her two sons – now 32 and 30 – during her 12-year marriage.
She says: “We got married when I was 28 but when we had our boys, I was very much an earth mother, breast feeding and carrying them round in a sling.
“At that time I felt my body was a baby making machine so my libido switched off.
Now I feel amazing again. I’m very confident, I know what I want, I love my body and what it can do and I know my experience is a turn on for men.
Suzanne Noble
“But it came back with a vengeance post-divorce and my 40s were completely wild.
“I experimented with all sorts of things such as BDSM, tantric sex which I thoroughly recommend and non-monogamy – which I have embraced ever since.
“I regularly went to a private members club and would have sex with a stranger in the loo. In the end they had to warn me that I had to stop being so brazen or they’d have to ban me.
“My sex drive briefly dropped during the menopause. I was having hot sweats and didn’t feel attractive any more which wasn’t conducive to wanting to have hot sex.
“I mourned my mojo and I felt I’d lost my identity as a sexual being, but I was desperate to get it back and sure enough it did gradually reappear.
“Now I feel amazing again. I’m very confident, I know what I want, I love my body and what it can do and I know my experience is a turn on for men.”
Suzanne is currently dating a 57-year-old builder who she enjoys rampant sessions with. But they aren’t as rampant as with one ex, who she once made love to 10 times in one day.
She says: “We met up quite recently and both admitted it was the pinnacle of our sex life.
“A lot of women believe that once you’ve finished procreating that there’s no need to have sex.
My top tip is to always be open – tell men what you want and like, they hate having to guess what will please you…I hope I’m still having an orgasm a day in my 90s.
Suzanne Noble
“Or they have physical problems such as vaginal dryness which makes sex painful.
“And of course men can get erectile dysfunction. They can be too embarrassed to go to the doctor.
“So I talk all about that because I believe it’s so important to be informed about how sex can be enjoyable at any stage of life.”
And while some of her friends don’t like talking about her podcast, her sons are proud of her.
She says: “One of them even used to tell his dates what I did as an icebreaker.”
And she says it’s a turn on for men: “They adore the fact that I’m so confident and love sex and don’t need any sort of commitment.
“My top tip is to always be open – tell men what you want and like, they hate having to guess what will please you.
“I love my life at the moment and I just hope I’m still having an orgasm a day in my 90s.”