I lost my social life when I had kids but now I go clubbing every weekend at 42… I party while my hubby’s at soft play
WHEN Julie Bond first had her children, she admits she “lost a part of herself”.
But the mum-of-two, from North London, is now back enjoying her clubbing days in her 40s – and she won’t let motherhood hold her back.
Proving she can do it all, the 42-year-old, from North London, hasn’t given up on clubbing with her friends while her husband takes the kids to soft play.
In fact Julie, who is also a graphic designer, exclusively tells Fabulous that it’s important her kids see her let her hair down and have a good time with the girls.
More To Life
“I think it is important for (my kids) to understand that my life doesn’t always revolve around them,” she says.
“Before they were born I had a great social life and enjoyed going out with my friends at least once a week partying.
“When I had my kids I felt that I lost a part of myself.”
The mum loves getting dressed up for the events she attends with her group of friends – claiming she’s often overdressed when she hits the dance floor.
“I’m always overdressed especially compared to my friends. I’ve always loved dressing up so I usually wear an out-out dress,” Julie adds.
“Everyone is different but I do like to make a bit of a statement.”
Let Loose
The busy mum, who has two daughters aged six and eight, doesn’t tend to get much time to herself.
Looking after two tots, Julie also has a job in design and is studying to be an acupuncturist.
Like most of us, Julie wants a break from the real world – and it’s why she’s been to every Studio38 clubbing event.
“For a few hours I feel like I am 21 again – no kids and no responsibilities,” she explains.
For a few hours I feel like I am 21 again – no kids and no responsibilities.
Julie XX
The events take place across the country on the weekends, but are slightly different to your normal club that shuts its doors at 3am and is filled with 20-something-year-olds who can barely walk.
Instead, these clubs are strictly for those over the age of 30 – and finish at a conservative 8pm.
For Julie the 3-8pm nightclub is the perfect way for her to forgot her parenting duties and still be home on time for a bed time story.
While Julie is off out dancing the afternoon away, her hubby is stuck with the rest of the mums at soft play or the cinema, to keep them entertained until Julie gets home.
She’ll then take over and tuck them into bed.
Julie says: “My husband has been my babysitter so far – although he would like to come – as he also loves to dance.”
“I Just missed their bedtime last time as me and the girls had been for a quick dinner, but I would usually catch the last half an hour to read them a story before bed,” she adds.
Join The Club
Julie claims the events feel like a normal nightclub – albeit in the middle of the day.
“The first time I thought it was going to be weird, but me and the girls had a few drinks and then a favourite song came on – we danced nonstop till the end,” she adds.
It works out much better for those who have responsibilities as the lights turn on and your kicked out at a much more respectable 8pm.
Not only does Julie get to be home at a reasonable time – but also means she can go out for a nice meal after – instead of a kebab on the walk home.
While there are lots of beneficial differences, Julie says somethings stay the same, like making new best friend’s while queuing for the toilet.
Alcohol is served in the club – but Julie says she doesn’t always need it when she’s dancing the night away with the girls.
“It’s so nice to not be home late and tired in the morning. Except for my feet,” she explains.
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