I upstaged my brother at his wedding on purpose – our mom was really mad but people say it’s clear he’s the golden child
AN angry man upstaged his brother at his wedding after he disrupted his.
While he felt justified in taking revenge, his family didn’t see it the same way.
Redditor No_Kiwi_2 shared the wedding drama in a post.
He had felt wronged after his brother ruined his big day with a huge announcement.
“My brother said he was going to propose at my wedding,” he wrote.
“I told him no, that it was a day about myself and my wife and we did not want any distractions.”
His mother, however, was unhappy to hear the decision he’d made.
“My mom lost her s**t. She said that he wanted family he might not see again for a while to be a part of the proposal,” he said.
“I said I did not give a s**t and that if he did it I would have him kicked out.”
Despite his warning, his brother proposed on the big day anyway.
“My mom said if I tried kicking him out she would leave too,” he said.
“I just remember seething inside.”
After letting time pass, he decided that revenge was a dish best-served cold.
“My brother got married last weekend. Instead of a welcome to the family toast, I used the time to announce that we were expecting our first baby,” he revealed.
The logic his brother had used about his proposal, he concluded, also applied to his pregnancy news.
“My mom was upset but my grandmother told her to sit down and shut up,” he said.
I just remember seething inside.
Redditor No_Kiwi_2
“We spent most of the reception talking to family we would not see again for a while about our coming baby.”
His mother, once again, was upset with him about his course of action.
“My mom says I was an a**hole for taking attention away from my brother on his wedding day,” he said.
“She got really mad when I reminded her that she threatened to leave my wedding if I kicked him out after he proposed.
“I have the screen cap of the text messages.”
Viewers pointed out his mom’s double standard for his brother.
“It’s blatantly obvious which one of you is the golden child,” said one commenter.
“Good job to grandma for shutting Mom’s bulls**t down.”
They added that his brother had it coming after he went against his wishes.
“But your bro! He asked, you said no, he did it anyway. That’s an easy way to wind up on people’s s** list,” they said.
Many praised his grandma for being on his side and taking his mom down a notch.
“Grandma’s is a f**king legend. Way to go OP, a funny a**hole bringing the karma back around hard and strong!” said one commenter.
“I’d be reminding her that Grandma had been pretty clear where she needed to be on this issue,” they added.
“I want to know if golden boi DARED to say anything about this to you all.”