Everything flops during sexual intercourse but I don’t want to let my wife down

DEAR DEIDRE: THERE are no issues when I self-pleasure, but everything flops during sexual intercourse.

I’m in my fifties and have erectile dysfunction.

I adore my wife, but I’m struggling to get things going in bed.

We have always had a thrilling sexual life until recently, when everything started to go pear shaped.

To make matters worse, after taking some ED pills, the same thing happened a few days later.

I was worried my wife thought I didn’t find her attractive, which isn’t true.

I thought my sex life was over until I went to the doctor and was told I have high testosterone.

I don’t know what to do.

How can I solve this?

DEIDRE SAYS: If your doctor has given you the physical all clear, this issue will likely be psychological.

You only need to struggle once to lose your confidence.

Agree with your wife not to have sex for a week and those erections should return naturally.

My support pack Solv­ing Erection Problems will help too.