I’m a traveller & we had strict rules growing up – girls aren’t allowed tattoos & can only drink in two circumstances
A WOMAN from the traveller community has revealed the strict rules she was brought up with – and the ones she’ll pass on to her own kids.
Trewley Precious, from the UK, grew up as one of 13 siblings and had strict rules to adhere to growing up in the traveller culture.
While she probably didn’t enjoy the rules when she was younger, Trewley said there were some she would stick to for her own kids in the future.
She said: “Get ready with me while I tell you the rules I had growing up that I’ll be giving to my children.
“First rule I’m going in with is curfew.”
She revealed they would have strict curfew and if she said a time, they’d better be home before then.
Next, she revealed that if she had daughters, they would never be allowed to get tattoos.
“Now, I know that some of you guys will say this might be a sexist thing, but listen, I don’t want my girls smothered in tattoos,” she added.
Trewley said they can do what they want after they were married with kids, but she’d prefer if they didn’t.
She also claimed her daughters would not be allowed to drink alcohol no matter their age unless they had a boyfriend or husband.
This was one of her favourite rules passed down from her father, as she said it was for protection to make sure you stay safe while drinking.
Trewley revealed that many of the rules were different for men and women for example, she would make sure her daughters would stay in school until the legal age while her sons could go out and work instead.
She also revealed her kids always had to look their best, as she grew up getting spray tans, wearing make-up and fake nails to look presentable.
While she wouldn’t go as extreme – Trewley said she expected her girls to wear lash extensions and keep their skin clear.
The clip posted to her TikTok account @trewleyprecious has since gone viral with over 332k views and 35k likes.
People were quick to share their thoughts on Trewley’s rules for her future kids.
Traditions in the gypsy/traveller communities
Nomadic lifestyle: Traditionally, many travellers maintain a nomadic lifestyle, living in caravans and moving frequently. This mobility is a core aspect of their identity, reflecting a deep connection to freedom and independence.
Strong family bonds: Family is central to traveller culture. Extended families often live and travel together, providing a strong support network. Marriages and social events are significant community affairs, reinforcing familial ties.
Distinct Language: Many travellers speak Shelta, also known as Cant or Gammon, a distinct language that mixes elements of Irish, English, and other languages. This language serves as a cultural marker and a means of private communication within the community.
Religious practices: The traveller community often follows Roman Catholicism, with religious festivals and milestones like baptisms, communions, and weddings being particularly significant. However, individual beliefs and practices can vary widely.
Unique celebrations: Events such as horse fairs and traditional weddings are major social gatherings for travellers. These occasions are marked by elaborate preparations, vibrant attire, and communal participation.
One person wrote: “I respect all these rules, you do what’s best for your children.”
Another commented: “I agree, we had the same, and my girl will be the same.”
“My grandma and grandad were gypsies but I’m not because my mum is not from gypsy blood but my dad is. Honestly the difference between how my mum raises me and my dad raises me is completely different,” penned a third.
Meanwhile a fourth said: “I love this!! I wish I grew up with this guidance .”
“I love hearing these!” claimed a fifth.
Someone else added: “I completely understand it’s a culture thing but your kids will be their own people and they will be allowed to do what they want when they want.”
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