5 romantic gestures that are totally annoying

There are some romantic gestures that are really annoying and could serve as major turn offs for certain people. We understand the fact that you may be trying to be romantic and all but at the long run, these little things would irritate anyone.

Too much of everything is bad; while trying to be the romantic partner, you should check yourself constantly to be sure you have not become someone else. You could become that boring, pesky and petty partner at the long run if care is not taken.

While you think you are being a perfect and sweet partner, you could be pushing the other person away with the attitude you put up while loving him or her. Some romantic gestures are annoying and could make you lose the relationship at the end of the day.

Find below some of the romantic gestures that you may be putting up that are totally annoying:

1. Stalking

No matter the level of your love for a person, you should never stalk him or her. Stalking could be really annoying and would wear anyone out. We totally get the fact that you want to be so involved in someone’s life and you want that person to be a part of yours too; however, you should be sensitive to their needs and not force your presence on them.

Give them enough space to get on with their lives and more space for them to miss you and appreciate you. Stalking could choke the life out of your partner and make the relationship frustrating.

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2. Public display of affection

This is another romantic gesture that would turn some people off immediately; we understand that you are love birds but you really do not need to overdo it in public. Your partner may be a conservative person who may not really fancy the holding of hands in public or kissing or things that may draw people’s attention to you.

While it is okay for you to do some cozy things at times, you should also learn to put a hold on them when you are out. Remember people watching your public display would laugh hard at you when things do not go as planned.

3. Visiting at work place

Seeing your bae at work may be cool if you only stop by when you cannot help being there. But when it becomes habitual, the romantic gesture could turn sour. The office or someone’s working place is the last place you need to parade in all because your partner is there.

Think of the words that could fly around and the distraction it could cause for the person. If you really love the person, you would try as much as possible to avoid visiting your partner at his or her working place.

4. Being too playful

Honestly, there is nothing wrong in trying to make the relationship an interesting one by letting your guards down and playing with your partner. But this romantic gesture loses it essence when you do it to the point where it wears your partner out and he or she starts to dread being around you.

Also, you are expected to learn how to read moods and know when being playful would be appreciated or frowned at. You obviously do not expect someone who has been busy all day working to jump and start to play with you when you turn on your playful acts.

Frustrating your partner with your idea of being playful is not a way of being romantic or loving. It is burdensome.

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5. Trying to be all perfect

This would make anyone mad; trying to be the perfect partner outside when you are a demon on the inside is annoying. Some people put on a different demeanor when they are out with friends or eating at exotic restaurants. That is when they become the well groomed partners that would make other couples go green with envy.

Doing this is to what means? To make the other couples jealous or to paint the perfect picture when all is rough and bad? If your partner is not one that can pretend, this romantic gesture you display when around others could turn them off.

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