Busy wife uses kids as excuse not to have sex so I am considering having an affair
DEAR DEIDRE: THERE were four gorgeous women who I passed up, all to remain faithful to my wife.
We’ve been married for nine years and I spend an unhealthy amount of time each day looking at these women on social media and fantasising about being intimate with them.
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I’m getting so frustrated, I’m considering tracking each of them down to have sex with them.
My wife and I are both 40 and have three children, a girl of 11, a son of nine and another girl of seven.
Life is busy but I feel my wife uses them as an excuse to avoid having sex.
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Life is busy but I feel my wife uses them as an excuse to avoid having sex.
She says she is always too tired! I’m fed up.
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DEIDRE SAYS: You are considering being unfaithful because you aren’t satisfied with your sexual relationship with your wife.
Please don’t cheat, something you would no doubt regret deeply.
Instead talk to your wife and let her know how much you are missing the intimacy.
Ask her if there is anything you can do to help her libido.
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