I have big boobs – people always say my tops are ‘inappropriate’ or ‘offensive’ but they’re not, I’m just existing
WOMEN with bigger chests are held to different – and often unfair – standards than those with smaller builds.
One influencer called out the hypocrisy online and encouraged her followers to wear what they like without fear.
On her social media, Nicolette (@nic0letteivy) shares her colorful style and creative ideas with viewers.
But she took time away from her normal content to make a video about something near to her heart, physically and emotionally.
By way of introduction, she said, “Today we’re going to be playing a game called, ‘Is this top actually inappropriate or do I just have big t**s.'”
Nicolette explained that in this “game,” she’d be comparing her outfits to photos of smaller-chested models wearing the same thing.
Her first look was a wide, deep-plunge cropped shirt in a goldenrod color.
On the greenscreen behind her, a smaller-chested model wore an identical look.
“Well, would you look at that! Looks like it’s just different body types,” Nicolette said gesturing at the woman behind her.
“Is this really that inappropriate? No,” she said, motioning to her own version of the ensemble. “It’s actually a cute fit.”
The next look was a black cropped shirt with a business-ready blazer over it.
Once again, she showed a similar look on a woman with a smaller chest, and used that photo to determine if the look was “offensive.”
“Wow! Incredible!” Nicolette said, sarcastically feigning shock. “We just have a different body type.”
“Is this offensive on her? No,” Nicolette said. “Is this inappropriate on her? No. It’s a f***ing fit.”
Stepping away from the smaller-chested models, Nicolette addressed her followers directly.
“All this to say, ladies, if you feel weird about your ladies, don’t,” she said. “They’re just big. There’s nothing wrong with them.”
“You just exist, and that’s okay,” she said, gently giving her viewers a kind reminder.
In the video description, Nicolette admitted, “I hope this helps someone because I really needed to hear this throughout my life.”
Men and women rushed to agree with Nicolette and thank her for imparting her encouraging message.
“Preach! No one should be ashamed to wear something that they think is cute,” a commenter agreed.
“That’s actually pretty classy though,” another impressed fan wrote. “Looks good.”
One follower left behind a golden rule of their own. “Never take nor give offense where none exists,” they advised.