I’m a bride and I’m sick of ‘jealous’ friends trying to ruin my wedding, they’re so childish
A BRIDE has been left dreading her wedding after constant attacks from “jealous and childish” friends.
The woman is supposed to be enjoying the countdown to her big day surrounded by loved ones who are excited to watch her tie the knot with her partner.
But instead, she’s terrified to even mention the word wedding in case it sets off one of her so-called pals.
Posting on Facebook, the frustrated bride said: “Has anyone encountered insane levels of jealousy from the woman in their lives while planning their wedding?
“Never in my life have I been under so much attack from so-called friends who literally are all giving the war cry of ‘I’ll not be coming to your wedding or cross me out or fine I won’t come ’ at every given second.
“It’s quite angry attacks which seem as though they have been boiling for years. It’s such a surprise considering a lot of these people claim to be actual friends .
“I wouldn’t raise it if it has only happened once but so far I have at least four almost five women in my life expressing real hatred towards me and my wedding day despite me making a fuss of them and being inclusive.
“Could there be truth in the fact you lose friends before a wedding?”
She added: “Just don’t know when the next attack is coming or where from or the next wedding decline for that matter. Very upsetting.
“I have barely mentioned my wedding so not exactly rubbing it in their faces I’ve been practically silent.
“It’s been a horrible journey so far much to my surprise. These threats are childish and they’re not my friends.
“I don’t want anything to do with them. I’d never do this to another person what’s happening to me.
“It feels as though they hold all the cards to my wedding and if they don’t get what they want or I don’t say or do the right thing by them they won’t come.”
The bride-to-be has been inundated with support from social media users who have all urged her to cut the offenders from the guest list.
One said: “If your ‘friends’ are openly uninviting or threatening to uninvite themselves, just do it and save yourself the hassle.
“You do not need the stress, and you should enjoy yourself hun. You only (or realistically) should only get married once.. and you’ll never get it back.
“Don’t feel guilty about it.”
A second wrote: “Jealousy! Simple as. If they then decide they don’t want to come to your wedding then absolutely better for you!
“Less to pay for, you aren’t the problem here, it’s them. Concentrate on your big day nothing else.”
Meanwhile, a third fumed: “Who the hell do they think they are?
“Imagine being so childish as to threaten to not come to your so-called friend’s wedding for silly reasons.
“Tell them to grow up or not come at all. Don’t give them the chance to spoil the build up for you.”