I’m experiencing panic attacks at the thought of returning to the office
DEAR DEIDRE: THE thought of going back to the office after three years working from home is giving me panic attacks, but my boss is insisting I come back full-time.
I fear I’ll lose my job if I don’t.
I’m a 37-year-old woman working as a book-keeper.
I have various auto-immune conditions, which make commuting really challenging.
So when the first lockdown was announced and everyone was forced to work from home, I was really happy.
I no longer had to exhaust myself driving through traffic, and could work more flexibly – sleeping in if I needed to, and making up the time.
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My job doesn’t need to be office-based, and I’ve been more productive at home.
But last month my boss announced that everyone has to work full-time in the office from now on.
It’s non-negotiable.
Since then, I haven’t been sleeping, feel sick and am having panic attacks.
My husband, 40, told me I’ve even started sleepwalking.
I need my job.
What can I do?
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DEIDRE SAYS: Employers have a duty to provide suitable working conditions/adaptations for employees with health conditions.
You’ve proven you can do your job from home so perhaps suggest a compromise, such as coming in two days a week.
If your boss won’t listen, talk to your HR department. Get advice from Acas (acas.org.uk, 0300 123 1100).
For help with anxiety, contact anxietyuk.org.uk (03444 775 774).