My kids have no bedtime & can have chocolate for breakfast…I may get judged for it but don’t care if others disagree
WHEN it comes to parenting, every mum and dad has their own unique tips and tricks that they swear by.
And what parenting style works for some may not work for others, as mum-of-two Han has found out.
She recently shared a post to TikTok (@hanmurtagh) revealing the controversial “rules” she has for her boys Teddi and Tobi that people often disagree with.
While many parents have a strict bedtime for their kids in a bid to establish some kind of routine they might stuck two, Han has a rather different approach.
“No bedtime,” she says.
“They will go to sleep when they are tired.”
Next, she notes how she allows her little ones to have chocolate for breakfast and, when speaking of having McDonald’s three times this week, she adds: “Let’s go!”
And while studies have shown that setting limits on screen time can have a positive effect on kids’ physical, social, and behavioural well-being, Han does what she needs to help her kids settle.
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“Screentime – we love it!” say says.
The mum-of-two also says that she’ll “never use the cry out method” because she “completely disagree with it” and notes: “Cuddles and holding them too much? Of course! Mummy’s bed even better!”
She concludes: “Kids will be kids, let them be a child.
“We are all learning as parents – there’s no right or wrong.”
The post has since gone viral, racking up a whopping 143k views and several comments, with many quick to commend Han on her candid post.
“Their tummy full?Clean?Place to sleep?Love and cuddles from mommy?AND THAT’S IT” wrote one.
Han replied: “Yes!! And people forget Obvs he has fruit / veg / he doesn’t always have screentime. It was just my rules are not strict with him.”
A second commented: “Agree apart from the bed time, mine are toddlers and run wild all day. I need some quiet!”
Han replied: “If I made Teddi go to bed he would kick off but if he goes naturally he goes around 8:30-9 so it works so much better than a routine.”
A third wrote: “They are your kids and you know what’s best for them. They look happy clean and fed. Well done mama!”
Meanwhile, a fourth noted: “Love this! Agree with everything!”
A further praised: “I love your ‘rules’ haha.”
And one more added: “You’re so real for this!”