I’m 30 and have never had a single relationship – people say my life would terrify them and I’m always the third wheel
A WOMAN has left the internet stunned after revealing she has been single her entire life.
Jordy, from the US hasn’t had a relationship in her 30 years of life – and people say it’s a terrifying reality.
Taking to social media, the blonde beauty revealed what it was really like being single for your whole life.
“I am 30 years old and never had a boyfriend, let me tell you one thing, it is that being single is not scary,” she said.
But it seemed not everyone agreed as many viewers claimed to be terrified of never being in a relationship.
Jordy continued that she joked in a video that she was always the bridesmaid and never the bride – and that being single for as long as she has been makes it feel that way.
However, she added there were some pros to living a life of total freedom.
“You watch your friends and people get into relationships, get out of relationships, find new relationships – meanwhile, you’re mostly the third wheel,” she added.
Jordy added it can often feel like a kick to your ego, “I’ve seen so many comments on that video like ‘Oh my gosh, I’m terrified this is gonna be me,'” she said.
But the young woman said having a relationship shouldn’t be the base of your self-worth and that society makes too big of a deal out of romantic relationships.
She went on to say of course it’s great if you find your person, and it can be a real help financially, but there was still lots of enjoy to get form life as a singleton.
Comforting those who were still single, Jordy adds you should appreciate the freedom and self-growth that comes from being alone.
The clip posted to her TikTok account @jordytings soon went viral with over 750k views and 55k likes.
People were quick to share their thoughts in the comments and many claimed to be in similar situations.
One person wrote: “People think 30 is “old” but honestly it’s still VERY young.”
Another commented: “I’m 30 and never had a boyfriend and honestly it is what is … dating is so long.”
“I found my people. I’m so scared I’ll never be in a relationship,” penned a third.
Meanwhile a fourth said: “Like…. all good but I hope that this isn’t me in 8 years.”
“BOOOO NOOOO I DONT WANNA BE SINGLE LOL GET ME OUT,” claimed a fifth.
Someone else added: “This scares me low key.”
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