I spent every weekend with my boyfriend for six months – then his wife texted me
A MAN who claims he spent every weekend with his boyfriend for six months was horrified when he received a text from his lover’s wife.
Josh Williams, 26, met his new partner and began a whirlwind romance earlier this year.
The care coordinator met his “vile” new beau, who The Sun has chosen not to name, online before they got into a relationship soon after.
Taking the older man to meet his family, Josh believed he had hit the jackpot and began planning couple getaways to Italy.
But his world came crashing down in August when the man’s wife checked his phone and messaged Josh exposing their now-sordid affair.
Following the discovery her husband had been unfaithful, his wife told how they had three kids together and she was “heartbroken” following the discovery.
In Instagram exchanges seen by The Sun, she asked Josh how long the fling had been going on for and demanded answers.
Left feeling “betrayed”, Josh said he had no clue his boyfriend was living two separate lives.
He said: “I’d just finished work and I got a message from a woman saying she’d gone through his phone and she knew what was going on.
“I looked at her profile and I could see he was in her pictures and they had kids. My jaw just dropped.
“I cried when I saw it. I felt super mugged-off and I felt betrayed and upset.
“I was shocked that he could have done that to me and I felt massively guilty for his wife and kids even though I had no way of knowing anything.”
Josh said the man didn’t share a lot of information – which he admits should have been a red flag – but at the time he just thought he was a private person.
He added: “I really trusted him. That’s why I took him to meet my parents. I’d never done that before.
“He got on really well with my nephew, but little did I know that was because he had kids of his own.”
Following the bombshell, Josh confronted his partner, saying: “Wtf, I actually cannot believe what I’m seeing.
“I’ve just had a message from YOUR wife. So you’re telling me the past few months have all been based on lies?!!
“Also you managed to forget to tell me about you having three kids! I feel sick to my stomach.
“Karma will get you. Don’t you DARE talk to me ever again. I feel sorry for [your wife]. You’re vile.”
Josh received a response before blocking the number which simply said: “Josh. I’m so sorry! I really am.”
Josh said the experience has traumatised him and he hasn’t been able to date since.
He added: “I want to put the story out there so other guys don’t end up in the same situation and they know this sort of thing does happen.
“Maybe people will see signs that I looked past initially, like how secretive he was, and they can check family connections.
“I want to make guys more cautious about getting into things when they don’t know anything about the man.”