Psychology pro reveals the tried and tested way you can seduce someone in seconds, and it’s all down to how you talk
A PSYCHOLOGY student has revealed the simple way she “seduces” someone, just by changing the way she talks.
Vanessa explained that she figured out how she can alter the tone and speed of her voice, and her hand gestures, to make more of an impact during a conversation with a man.
“I swear I wanted to gate keep this so bad because it’s my method and if every girl starts doing this, it’s gonna make me feel weird,” she began her TikTok video.
“But I’m going to let you know how to seduce any man that is in front of you.
“I do it if I want to get something out of a guy, or I have like a job interview or whatever.
“This is how it goes. Men cannot resist this.”
Vanessa, who had been speaking fast and using lots of gesticulations at the beginning of the video, explained that her natural way of talking is “super unattractive”.
So, the first thing she does to make herself more attractive to a man is to slow her voice down.
“You want to sound like you’ve just woken up, you want to make your voice raspy, you want to really relax your voice, there should be no pressure on your voice at all,” she said.
“Every time you talk, you want to make sure you slow down.
“Now keep talking to them like that. And make eye contact with them and don’t break it.
“Don’t stare them down either, though, because if it’s too obvious you’re flirting, it’s going to break the whole thing.”
As for the hands, keep them “very gentle and very firm”.
“There is a huge difference,” she added.
“You want to be very gentle and feminine and guys just go crazy.”
And when it comes to their response, men usually start slowing down their own tone to match yours.
“And they’re gonna start looking at your lips because they want to kiss you,” she continued.
“And they’re going to start squirming and getting uncomfortable, because they don’t know what to do with the person right in front of them.”
“It’s really easy and I do it all the time,” she concluded.
Vanessa added in the caption: “How to easily seduce any guy. No you don’t need to do anything physical.”
“I’m a slow talker walker and gentle by nature,” one person commented on the video.
“Men are always on their toes around me, I never understood it.”
“I do these things naturally, I always wonder why they say I make them fall in love with the way I talk,” another said.
But not everyone was convinced by Vanessa’s advice and suggestions.
“I believe you,” one wrote.
“But I’m tired of having to change to capture their attention. All this for men who aren’t worth a damn.”
“IDK girl, I don’t think I wanna change the way I talk for a man,” another added.
“I can’t pretend something I’m not! Either you like it or you don’t lol,” a third commented.
“But when they get to know you and see the real you, it’s gonna feel sooooooo embarrassing!” someone else said.
“Guys love my positive attitude and perky personality. This is not the best advice,” another insisted.