My penis is so big that my girlfriend broke up with me
DEAR DEIDRE: People always claim that bigger is better, but I’m so well-endowed that my girlfriend broke up with me.
I’m 26, she’s 25 and we were together for seven months.
We had a great relationship but sex was always an issue for us.
It’s fair to say that I’m bigger than your average man, and it’s always caused me issues. While I know the average penis measures around six inches, mine is closer to 10 inches.
Every time we had sex it hurt her, and the pain carried on for hours afterwards.
She’d try to pretend that she was enjoying it, but I could tell from her face she wasn’t and was just doing it to please me.
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I suggested that we try various lubes and different positions but nothing seemed to help.
Eventually, my girlfriend started to avoid sex and while I tried my best to satisfy her in other ways, it was never enough.
It wasn’t long before told me she couldn’t take it anymore and broke up with me.
Now I’m at a complete loss. The last thing I wanted to do was hurt her.
MORE FROM DEAR DEIDRE
DEIDRE SAYS: There’s no such thing as “too large”.
So long as a woman is properly aroused, her vagina should be able to accommodate any size of penis.
It may be difficult to accept, but the right person won’t leave because of your size.
My support pack Too Large explains this issue in more detail and how you can go about dealing with it.