My jealous ex won’t stop until she splits me and my younger girlfriend up
DEAR DEIDRE: MY jealous ex won’t stop until she splits me and my younger girlfriend up.
So far she has sent photos of both of us having sex, told her that I’d even been in contact professing my love for her and even warned her that I’d never be faithful.
I don’t think she wants me back, this is simply about jealousy.
She can’t bear to see me moving on with someone gorgeous and decent.
Still I’m worried my girlfriend will get fed up with the aggravation and I hate having to deal with my ex’s nasty comments — it takes me right back to our toxic marriage.
I was married to my ex-wife for five years. She’s 54 and she’s not a nice person.
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I’m a man of 57 and it was a tough marriage. She constantly accused me of cheating and belittled me in front of others.
She took me for everything when we divorced. The one person who was there for me was a younger woman from work.
She’s 48 and she works in our accounts department. She’d always sit with me for lunch, she listened to me and I began to look forward to seeing her every day.
One lunchtime she was a bit teary because her boss had shouted at her.
We went for a walk and it felt so natural to start kissing her. We started dating and I’ve never been so happy.
We went on holiday in July and I posted some pictures of us on Facebook.
Since then, my ex’s campaign has been in overdrive. She sent one image of me climaxing with a note to my girlfriend at work, saying “Relief is not having to see his ‘o’ face again.”
My girlfriend thinks she is ridiculous but her constant putdowns are really getting to me and making me doubt myself.
MORE FROM DEAR DEIDRE
DEIDRE SAYS: You did well to get away from your ex’s nasty behaviour once, and you can do it again.
The fact she seems hellbent on destroying your relationship shows just how insecure and troubled she is.
Sending sexual images of you without consent is classed as Revenge Porn and is a criminal offence.
For support please contact the Revenge Porn Helpline (revengepornhelpline.org.uk).
I would also urge you to contact the National Stalking Helpline (suzylamplugh. org) for guidance on how to nip this unwanted contact in the bud.
In the meantime, keep a note of the details of each unwanted contact.