Dear Abby: My brother is mad that I won’t give him my car

When I tried to express my sympathy, Chris attacked me via direct message, saying I have a charmed life and don’t care about anyone — including him and our cash-strapped parents.

When I tried to return it, Dad refused.

Because I stopped responding to him on the Internet, Chris is now complaining to Mom about my “selfishness.”

A family meeting — including your husband — might clear the air so all of you are on the same page.

Is there any way to counter a stranger’s mean or hurtful remark (racist, age-related or sexist) in a mall or store? I feel I have to say something — without being confrontational — even if the remark isn’t aimed at me.

Dear Compelled:

Because you don’t want a confrontation, I urge you to say nothing to the person who made the offensive remark.